We believe that fatherhood is stronger when shared. The journey of raising a child with disabilities comes with challenges, growth, and moments of deep connection. The words below are from dads, families, and partners who have found support, encouragement, and transformation through this movement.
Whether it’s through coaching, resources, or simply knowing you’re not alone—this is what GOT4TITUDE is all about.
What people are saying.
“Kirby Rabalais' 4TITUDE is a game-changer for fathers raising children with special needs. His coaching provides encouragement, practical strategies, and a strong community for dads navigating unique challenges. With firsthand experience and deep empathy, Kirby empowers fathers to lead with resilience, purpose, and confidence. Highly recommended for dedicated dads!”
—David Hirsch
“Receiving a CHD diagnosis for your baby is life-changing, and navigating the challenges can feel overwhelming. Hearts for Henry is dedicated to supporting families through this journey, and we’re grateful to partner with 4titude. Their platform provides invaluable resources and a strong community for fathers and families walking this unique path. “
— Barret Witzel co-founder Hearts for Henry
“Kirby and 4titude are committed to addressing a need that exists within schools - ensuring that fathers have a 'go to' support system as they navigate their child's education and seek to understand the unique abilities of their learner. Similarly, TrueNorth is committed to eliminating barriers for students across our region. We appreciate Kirby and his efforts and hope that our partnership expands so that we can ensure our students and their families are active members within their school community.”
— Alan Wahlert
“Kirby Rablais is the compassionate and experienced leader of 4titude and is driven to provide resources and support for fathers raising children with disabilities. 4titude has become a go-to resource for our clients who have students with disabilities, and for my network as well. Kirby and 4titude provide much-needed information and community for fathers who are navigating the unique challenges and blessings of raising children with disabilities.”
—Leslie Kischer
“I've known Kirby for over 3 years! I have the pleasure and honor to work with his son! Kirby has the biggest heart, he is warm, kind and a great listener. Kirby has created a much needed space for fathers of children with special needs. Connect with Kirby and begin your coaching journey!”
—Erin Ross
“Kirby started this business because he is knowledgeable and passionate about helping others. If you are seeking assistance, there is no one better to turn to.”
—Sean Goodwin
“That Kirby and his wife Chelsey are able to face the challenge of an unexpected diagnosis of their son and find blessings in it impresses me. That Kirby had gone beyond that to help other fathers in similar situations to find blessings in their challenges is truly inspiring. It is in overcoming challenges that we grow.“
—Deacon John Kaufmann
